Experimenting with gay sex
Straight Males and Queer Experimentation
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Quite simply, I’m wondering how common it is for self-identifying unbent males to experiment with homosexuality. Sorry if this comes off as asking for TMI, or if it’s in the false forum (seemed too "what’s your personal experience?) for GD.
Being gay and having gay friends, I catch a lot about 2 kinds of dealings with straight guys. The first is youthful experimentation, before the participants are fully aware or comfortable with their sexual orientation. I personally never had such experiences, I didn’t hold sexual contact with anyone until I was fairly mature and comfortable with my sexuality.
The other contact is the kind of thing you hear about more in erotic fiction or porn, which is the sleeping with the straight guy AFTER they’re both older and establish in their sexual orientation. I’ve had friends chat about how they’ve “gotten with” straight guys just because the timing was right, a guy was horny or what own you. Again, I realize nothing of the sort, and always considered direct guys to be completely unattainable.
Now, I don’t possess too many straight male friends, and those I do have I’ve never asked a
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Tips for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men – in a safe and respectful way
To begin, I’d fond of to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to scout their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it’s important to understand that you can try recent things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who wish to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and identify as men too.Cis is the opposite of trans. We converse trans men morehere, andhere’s some assist and advice about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.
1. Be truthful from the get-go that you’re curious
Whether you want to hook up with someone you’re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you’ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr, honesty is fundamental from the beginning. Many queer people are empathetic