Straight gay friend
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Ask VICE is a series where readers ask VICE to solve their problems, from dealing with unrequited love to handling annoying flatmates. Today, we’re hoping to help someone who is muddled about their queer attraction to a friend.
Hey VICE,
I can’t stop thinking about having sex with a close companion of mine and it’s weird because I’ve never, in my 23 years, been attracted to men before. Of course, I perceive when a guy is good looking – I’ve always owned up to that – but I’ve only ever been sexually interested in women.
Now, though, I’m having dirty thoughts about my companion – when I see him, when I look him up on social media, when I masturbate – ever since he broke up with his girlfriend six months ago. He’s bisexual person and has started hooking up with men too, so I keep thinking: ‘Why not with me?’
I’ve even tried watching gay porn to understand my situation better, but I didn’t favor it. At the same time, I feel almost too good when I’m around him – our bromance moments disarm me. He knows this too, and he plays into it quite a bit. A week ago, he said he was drunk and kissed me. He told me maybe it’d be better if we went house
Gay Foremost Friend
Such a caring friend.
— Tanya, The White Lotus
The Gay Best Buddy exists mostly to add variety, amusing mannerisms, and economical laughs to an otherwise all-straight story and sometimes shows political correctness. The gay best companion is depicted as mostly interested in shopping, fashion, and makeovers.
The GBF may talk about sex a lot but is seldom depicted as having any because too many viewers would find that disturbing. Either he has no love existence to speak of (which never seems to bother him), or it's forever offscreen, only discussed with the heroine over brunch at some pretentious cafe.
As modern population grows increasingly cozy with gay people, fiction is adv seeing more well-rounded gay supporting characters with onscre
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I have a similar situation with my association. My boyfriends gay comrade is inLove with him and he doesn’t perceive that. there is so many things that build me realize that.
1 they see each other once a week to cocktail in a bar, when they do and gain drunk, my boyfriends homosexual friend starts complementing him in front of me , like his handsome, touching his arm ( in a way that makes me uncomfortable), looking him with this in love eyes. start making inappropriate joke
2 he had a picture of a naked guy that looks like my boyfriend and even he shows the pictures to everybody. and he start saying DOESNT HE LOOK LIKE HIM???
3 he told my partner that he heard that i was dating one of his friends a couple of times( guy that I don’t even know). obviously lies.. don’t know what was exactly his intention.
4 he invited my boyfriend first to an island and a week after he mentioned and then he invited me .. ( last minute) obiously my crush didn’t go.
5 he always pays for everything, dinner, uber, all the swig in the bar ( mos
You are Straight
And your ally is gay.
What you are gonna do ?